Leave

 When you are in that first terrible in Israel, where you realize that it isn't a high tech society, that you are not home now with family but around rude and unhelpful people for the most part, when you struggle with the language, when find out that your apartment is tiny and moldy, and so many other issues, you get told that this is just the first year. The first year is hard. So you stay and get intertwined with the society at least through your kids. But time goes by and it continues to be hard because Israel has a garbage society. It's never going to get better and you should have left after six months. All those flaming Zionists who told you that you should never even consider leaving are selfish, non-religious people who really don't care that it's very difficult to survive as a religious person in Israel. They don't care about that. They just want to have an army of their own and similar nonsense. Message to those in the first year. Leave!